Stop Performing. Start Returning.
You've spent years being the strong one. The capable one. The glue. But lately, holding it all together feels like it's holding you hostage.
You manage the moods, absorb the energy, do what’s expected — but inside, something’s cracking. Quietly. Relentlessly.
How It Works
Step into the field
We'll meet in a call to feel into what's real, name what's no longer working, and see if the space I hold is right for what you're ready to become.
Choose your path
If it's a yes, we'll choose the coaching container that best meets you — not based on pressure, but on alignment. You won't be squeezed into a system. We'll work from signal.
Return to what's true
Together, we'll strip away what's not you — the guilt, the roles, the old survival patterns — so you can lead, speak, and live from your wild, sovereign center.
Are you ready to remember?
There's a voice under the surface.
It's not polished or polite. It's wild. It's wise. And it's done being silenced. You're not here to keep the peace by losing yourself. You're here to reclaim your voice. To remember your knowing. To live like your body belongs to you again.
This isn't self-help. It's self-return.
I'm not a coach who gives you scripts. I'm a field-holder who walks beside you while you strip away what's not true. We work with energy, voice, nervous system, and soul. We don't fix — we unhook. Because deep down, you already know who you are.
Ready to stop being “the good one”?
Welcome home. Explore: The Good Girl Exit Plan™ — a 3-day 1:1 portal back to your power. You don't need to become someone new. You just need to stop shrinking to survive. Let's begin. Barefoot. Awake. Wildly, wholly you.
Stefanie Carola Placke
PhD chemist turned portal painter. Field holder. Frequency keeper. I guide women who've spent years managing, performing, and holding it all together — back to the truth of who they are. Not by giving them more to do — but by helping them unhook from who they were never meant to be. This isn't about becoming someone new. It's about coming home to the self you buried to survive.
Testimonials
Read what clients have to say
I came to Stefanie carrying this constant anxiety that whenever my boyfriend opened his mouth, bad news would follow. It wasn't just recent—it was a long-standing fear, like I was always waiting for the other shoe to drop.
During our session, Stefanie named and brought clarity to patterns I'd been carrying for years. The precision of what she identified was uncanny, as if she was directly tapped into my inner world.
Afterwards, everything shifted. My boyfriend's energy toward me became softer, kinder, and more connected. The irritability I'd been bracing myself for simply wasn't there anymore. Instead, I feel safer, calmer, and much more at ease in the relationship.
Working with Stefanie was like flipping a switch on a dynamic I thought I'd be stuck with forever. The change has been undeniable.
Ell Leigh Clarke
formerly burned out sci-fi author
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FAQs
Find answers to commonly asked questions about our services.
What if I don't have time right now?
That's exactly the point. The version of you who never has time is the one we're recalibrating. If your calendar is always full but your soul is still starving-this is for you. We're not adding more to your plate. We're clearing what was never yours to carry.
I have so much going on. Can I really commit to this right now?
You don't need perfect conditions. You need permission. This isn't about squeezing into another to-do list. It's about exiting the cycle that keeps you last in line for your own life. We work with real life, not around it. 20 minutes a day is all this takes. But the shift is cellular.
I want this… but I'm not sure I can justify spending the money.
What's it costing you to keep performing? To keep holding everyone else together while your truth goes quiet? This work isn't a luxury. It’s a return. You're not paying for a product. You're reclaiming your power. And when you do? Everything else starts responding differently—clients, kids, partners, money. Because aligned women don't attract from depletion. They attract from truth.
At Fire Starter Life Coach, we believe that everyone has the power to create the life they desire.
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